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DP forgot we have a scan :(

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cornishmumtobe · 16/12/2017 17:00

Just after a bit of a hand hold really. Fully aware that pregnancy hormones are making me feel more emotional than usual.

Basically, I have a growth scan next week. Been booked since September. Have told DP about this multiple times / discussed how I will get him home after (he doesn't drive and the scan is at a hospital in another county - I've managed to work from home even though I actually work v close to the hospital so I can drive him home after) and the letter has been on our notice board in the kitchen since September.

Well he forgot. And has agreed to swap shifts at work so now he's working that day Sad his immediate reaction was that he thought he we might have been doing something that day but couldn't remember what and joked with his manager that I might be annoyed about it.

I'm just feeling sad that he never remembers anything we do. I've said he should use the calendar I bought him but his response is 'I never put anything in the calendar' and 'there's nothing I can do now'. He didn't even seem bothered about it which really upset me Sad tried talking to him calmly about it and why I was disappointed (last night) but he just got really angry at me and has been completely off with me ever since.

Sigh. Sorry for the rant. Just wish he cared more.

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cornishmumtobe · 23/08/2021 17:03

Randomly I thought I would again update this thread. Not sure why!

So ex left when LO was 6 months old. Saw him sporadically and usually only for 20 minutes a week. A year ago I asked him to commit to a regular time every week to have LO and proper time aaaaaand LO and behold we now haven't seen him for an entire year.

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thingymaboob · 23/08/2021 17:07

@cornishmumtobe sounds like you've been through a lot. Hope you and your LO are ok. Hope he's paying maintenance!

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