Help!
I have asked to be referred to a consultant as I had a previous 3rd degree tear 3 years ago which still hurts!
I was previously advised that with my second baby I would probably need to see a consultant to discuss my options.
Well this didn’t happen and my Midwife seemed to not really care. So I spoke to my gp about it who said he would speak to my Midwife!? And she has told me she will refer me to the consultant Midwife. What does this mean? Will she/he be able to discuss all birth options with me or just try and force a natural birth on me?
I feel like nobody is taking me seriously- even more worrying is that the gp said he seemed to be missing some of my records!!??
Has anybody had any experience of this? I would like some insight.