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ok....please someone tell me im being silly

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nearlyamummy · 14/04/2007 22:23

Here it is ladies!!! I am driving myself nuts over this. I am now 37 weeks pregnant (yea!!!!). I had a miscarrage last may and it lead to a bit of a tough time for me and my boyf. We went through a bit of a rocky patch and even thou we were still havin sex before we split up for a month at the begining of august last year. I went away for a week mid august and met a guy.....I DID NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM but we were a bit touchy feely for just 1 night....I wld not undress or let him touch me down there for long because for 2 reasons....already suspected being pregnant and secondly I just wernt up for it. I'm a grown woman and I know you have to have sex to get pregnant but I'm sooooo scared that this random guy will be the father and not my boyf who I got back together with straight away on return from hols....wen I did come home I found out I was pregnant and the first day of my last period was the 31/07/06 and me and boyf had unprotected sex after then and I have not had unproted sex with anyone else. Please someone tell me what they think, I know deep down I'm prob. Just being silly but pls someone answer me!!!!!! Thank you xx

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GibbonInARibbon · 14/04/2007 22:26

you're being silly

blame hormones

princesscc · 14/04/2007 22:26

Well how can he be the father if you didnt have sex with him?

donnie · 14/04/2007 22:26

how old did you say you were?

ScoobyDooooo · 14/04/2007 22:26

Did he ejaculate anywhere nr your down below?

GibbonInARibbon · 14/04/2007 22:27

hold on...just re read...you didn't undress???

you are being very silly

foxybrown · 14/04/2007 22:28

definately being a bit silly, a bit mad, probably VERY hormonal

don't worry, as soon as this baby comes you'll have so much more to worry about, you'll completely forget about this.

Good luck! xx

Boco · 14/04/2007 22:28

Maybe you could go back to basics, reassure yourself by looking at some 'how babies are made' books. You're probably just having a bit of a freak out due to hormones and stress - but as you know, you really do have to have sex to make a baby.

foxybrown · 14/04/2007 22:29

and perhaps feeling a little bit guilty?

don't worry!!!!

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nearlyamummy · 14/04/2007 22:32

I know...I know...!!!! And it was so embaressing to ask but I just had to...thank you for just telling me I'm being silly.
I even started thinking wat if he had seman on his fingers...and then he touch me but apparently that's highly unllikely to!!!

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InTheHouse · 14/04/2007 22:32

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mustrunmore · 14/04/2007 22:36

Funnily enough, I had a simliar mad irrational thought with ds1. Its ridiculous. forget it. trust me.

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nearlyamummy · 14/04/2007 22:52

Thanx I no I'm being silly, I jus couldn't help but work myself up bout it!!!! As silly as it sounds I keep thinking wat it he had a bit of seman on his fingas and did it that way!!!! Again I no I'm being silly and its my hormones!!

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nearlyamummy · 14/04/2007 22:57

I'm a grown woman of 28....and if anyone had ever of asked me that question I would have told them to stop being so silly....just needed to be told...
You must think I'm crazey??...or realy imature honestly I'm not!!!

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fees · 14/04/2007 22:59

poor you worrying about such a thing!!! NO WAY in world you could be pregnant by touchyfeely boy I agree with foxybrown you are probably feeling guilty and thats why this entered your head!! But don't worry and don't be so hard on yourself try to forget about touchfeely and just look forward to your baby!! Good luck with everythingXX

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