Severe stress/worry/depression

[RubyJos]

I don't really know where to go or what to do or who to talk to , I'm so just stressed and cannot for the life of me stop crying. 14 weeks pregnant tomorrow..

My boyfriend is usually very good support but he is also mega stressed with work and away a lot so I feel like I can't even bare to tell him what I'm thinking as it's just going to add to his stress!

The main aspects of my stress is work/uni and finances. I'm so scared that my awful financial state and debts is going to affect us both when he wants to enquire about buying rather than renting. We've also had split money as we both earn quite a bit, but my old spending habits mean although a lot comes in... a LOT goes out too.

I just don't know what to do 😭😭😭

Sorry you're feeling like this. Does he not know you have the debts? If so then I would definitely tell him even if it's a really upsetting conversation for you to have. He'll find out eventually and will be annoyed you kept it from him.
Can you go on a DMP with stepchange? I did that a few years back when I had crippling debts and my outgoings went from about £1200 a month to £200 a month. It did ruin my credit rating for 6 years though but I now have a great rating.
Does he earn a decent salary and have a good credit rating? If so he could buy a house and you could then be put on the mortgage once you've sorted your debts out? If he wouldn't be able to get a house by himself then you'll have to both accept that you'll need to rent for the next 5 years or so. It won't be forever