13 weeks & still worrying

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I don't know why this pregnancy is so worrying for me. I went through the full 40 weeks with DD, no problems, no sickness, nothing. In and out of hospital to give birth within 24 hours!
This time however ..... OMG! Nothing but problems 😭 whether it's a uti, fatigue, not to mention the severe morning sickness since 5 weeks which has had me admitted to hospital twice.
I'm now 13 weeks and have been spotting since Saturday. MW said it's totally normal, and I had a scan on Monday and baby is fine, and growing nicely. But I just can not put this worry to the back of my mind even though I know it's light, and brown with no clots. I just find myself constantly worrying! I think I am just mental

You're not mental. Pregnancy is bloody stressful! 38 weeks and I still have a daily panic.

I think it will help when I can feel baby moving about so I know it's ok.
I think it's hard when you see if moving about on an ultrasound but can't feel it inside you...
I think this one is a boy causing me all these problems!

Just try and relax I know it's easier said than done I know exactly how you feel. I've got 3 children and have also had 2 miscarriages the first at 8 weeks and the second at 13.6 weeks. I'm pregnant again 32 weeks and still on edge but it's all worth it. Xxx

Sorry to hear about your miscarriages. I lost one just before this pregnancy. I think that's what has made me into a worrying mess. I fell again straight away, so probably didn't have time to process the loss and already got another growing baby to think about. I had the mindset that it would never happen to me... and it did! Not a nice experience, but will be celebrating a new life come April 💗💙

I worry all the time as well. Pregnancy is stressful!

Thank you for your kind words. After my first miscarriage I had a beautiful healthy baby girl conceived a month after the miscarriage and I was a wreck though the whole pregnancy and after my second miscarriage I conceived 4 months later and I'm 32 weeks pregnant with a baby boy I'm still scared and nervous but every doctor and consultant I've seen say that two miscarriages back is very rare. I truly believe we will both be fine. Enjoy your pregnancy. Xxx