Hi all, thought I would post on here as I'm feeling very low & don't really want to talk about this to my family/friends.
I'm 26 weeks pregnant and ever since I've been around 16 weeks pregnant my boyfriend has gone off me completely, we don't have sex and I feel like I have to beg him for it, and even then he sometimes won't do it and im left feeling embarrassed. He works lots of over time and doesn't make time for me anymore, I don't feel any love or passion for me, he has never been a very affectionate person but never this bad, I rarely see him, so when I do I would expect he would like to cuddle or speak to me but he doesn't he just goes to sleep and doesn't want to be near me, when I try to hug him in bed he tells me to move because he's worried he's going to hurt my belly by lying on me or something. I find this really hurtful and I keep crying because I feel so low, unattractive and unloved.
I know he loves the baby and he's excited to become a dad.
He says he loves me and wants to be with me, but I'm not sure, what should I do? I have tried to speak to him about how I feel but I don't seem to get anywhere with it :-( I really love this man with all of my heart but I can't stand this feeling of rejection.
All advice welcome, thank u