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Feeling left out. AIBU?

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StaryEyes1978 · 10/09/2017 19:09

Full prepared to be told I am being pregnant and hormonal but here goes. I am 21 weeks pregnant and last night DP went out with his mates for one of their birthdays. All arranged quite last minute but I have no issues with him having a night out with the lads (I dropped him off and picked him up).
When we got home he told me what a nice night he had had and talked about all the boys being out and their respective partners.
Now I feel really left out.
As I said probably just hormones and to be honest given how tired I have been I probably wouldn't have gone, but is it unreasonable to feel upset I wasn't asked?

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Chottie · 10/09/2017 19:10

No, YANBU.

You should have been asked.

Mrsknackered · 10/09/2017 19:12

No, not unreasonable. This happened when I was pregnant with DS2, a good friend of DP's organised a dinner for his birthday and invited everyone and their partners. When DP asked why I hadn't been invited 'he said oh because she's pregnant' DP didn't attend, as he was quite correct in saying that I am more than capable of making my own decisions - even when pregnant!
Was that the reason why?

WineAndTiramisu · 10/09/2017 22:04

Definitely not being unreasonable at all...

NapQueen · 10/09/2017 22:05

Did he know partners were going?? Pretty shit not to invite you if everyone elses ohs went.

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