Is he cheating..

[imjustnotme]

Me again..
I know I've seen messages on his phone inviting another women to his home when we had a row and I went to my best friends for the night but he promised it was just a drunken message and that she didn't turn up but now I'm sat at my mums waiting for him to pick me up (I've currently no car due to selling it to pay HIS rent) he was meant to be here for 7 so I've just rung him 8pm and his words were 'I've just poped home first to wash all the bedding. Apparently he slept in his work clothes (he's a dairy farmer) last night as he just flaked out. But earlier when he spoke to me on the phone he said he sept on the sofa. Am I reading too much into this and being paranoid or would other people be questioning it too? Also he went and sold our Labrador dog last night he told me he traveled nearly an hour and bit away to drop this dog off yet I saw the dog on a lost and found page literally 10 minutes location from where he lives? His reply to this was her brother bought the dog and then traveled to deliver the dog to said house? Surely it would of been easier for the guy to collect dog on the way as he had to travel this way anyway? Hope this makes sense!! Please need some advice as I really don't know what to do & ps- I'm 34 weeks pregnant today🤰🏼

Grow a pair and leave him. You'll be fine. You obviously don't trust him (you might have a good right not to). Either way, a relationship is nothing without trust, leave him and the stress.

I wouldn't sleep with him whilst having doubts could pick up a STD , but I would focus on the pregnancy and thinking about opportunities to leave. Possibly after birth if you are likely to be in a more stable position.

You suspect him for a reason, he may not be cheating, but he is giving you reasons to not trust him.

Leave him and get the dog back!

Sounds very suspicious! Have you confronted him?
I'm pregnant too and my husband who I actually left two years ago is the father he seems to be addicted to online dirty messages to other woman that's why I left obviously I ended up sleeping with him recently but he will never change it just gets worse and more stressful which you don't need
Sending hugs x

Leave him and get the dog back!

Agree!!!

Cheating or not, this is hardly the behaviour of a supportive partner.

Sounds horrible situation OP. But if you cant trust him you are on a slippery slope. What happens if hes late home, doesnt answer phone, etc etc you will read into everything he says (even if its true) now you have seen the messages. You dont need this stress whilst pregnant. And he should be supporting you. Drunk or not its not an excuse. Sorry OP.

Don't be a gullible fool. It sounds obvious to me that he is cheating. You have to look after yourself and baby. You can do it without him.

You don't need this shit when you're pregnant and it'll get 10x worse when baby is here. Decision time.