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Pregnant with 4 child and panicking

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Ilovechocolate111 · 31/08/2017 11:51

Well my family and I went camping on 21st Aug and came back last night. (Lovely time)
Whilst I was there on 26th aug I popped into a shop and brought a pregnancy test on the off chance As I've had no period since I came off the pill around the 24th July, anyway I did the test and within seconds I got a bfp. I was gob smacked as I was did a test before we left to go camping and said negative.
Me and my husband are over the moon but we're both on edge as I have had 4 mc's in the past.
On Monday the 28th Aug I went for a wee and when I wiped there was a slight pink and clear discharge and Im panicking that it might be a mc again. I've had no cramps or pains and it's only when I wipe and nothing goes in my underwear Tmi sorry..
I have tender boob Constantly sleepy and eating alot and bloated and very moody
Am I panicking over nothing? Confused
And when do I get intouch with a midwife to book an appointment? X

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Brenna24 · 31/08/2017 12:12

Blood can be something or nothing. I is always worth getting checked out. here we book in the with midwife at about 8 weeks. You don't need to see a Dr first, just phone the surgery and ask for a booking in appointment with the midwife. Other regions differ and you may have to see a Dr first.

We also have a fantastic Early Pregnancy Unit. Ours accepts self referrals as well as midwife or Dr referrals. It is worth checking where yours is and what their criteria are. If they don't accept self referrals I would phone your Drs surgery and ask to speak to a Dr or midwife.

I hope all is ok.

Ilovechocolate111 · 01/09/2017 18:59

Well this evening has been eventful. Went for a nap this afternoon and when i woke up I had a gush from down below (luckily I was wearing a sanitary towel) so I rush to the loo and pad was full of blood.
Since then every time I stand up or get up to quickly I have a little trickle. I have got mild cramps and back ache but no clots tmi sorry. I'm more than I certain that I'm having another mc.
Told my husband and he seems to of gone quiet on me, he seems to be in more shock than me 😑
My doctors are not open now and they are not open during the weekend so should i ring the epu and explain to them and but I'm more than sure that i can't self refer. What should i do. Confused
Don't take this the wrong way but I'm not sad or upset, I'm more annoyed of my body as I can't seem to carry baby's. This will be the 5th mc but the Docs won't check me out till ive had 3 mc one after the other which I think is w&ňk. My body is STUPID..

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TheChineseChicken · 01/09/2017 19:31

Sorry to hear this but it doesn't sound great. I had the same experience as Idiot - no ability to scan at A&E so had to wait until the following week anyway.
If you haven't yet had 3 MCs in a row does that mean you have had successful pregnancies in between? Does this count as the 3rd now? I hope you get some investigations and answers Flowers

Ilovechocolate111 · 01/09/2017 19:57

I had a misscarraged before my first child and then had a prem baby and 3 mc then my son and then another mc and now I'm certain another one

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Ilovechocolate111 · 01/09/2017 20:02

Sorry I got that wrong.
1 mc before my first son
Prem baby
2 mc
Another baby boy
1 mc
And now another one

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Brenna24 · 02/09/2017 09:29

There is not much anyone can do over the weekend unless you are haemmoraging, in which case go to A&E. The EPUs generally aren't open on the weekend either. There is nothing they can do to stop it either. I would wait until monday. I hope you are ok Flowers

Ilovechocolate111 · 02/09/2017 09:43

I'll just wait until Monday.
I haven't passed any clots yet just been like stringy goo stuff sorry Tmi.
I don't have any painful cramping yet. It's definitely different to the last misscarrages I've had.
ConfusedConfusedBrew

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TheChineseChicken · 02/09/2017 21:02

Poor you, it's horrible. I hope the weekend isn't too difficult

Brenna24 · 04/09/2017 17:37

How are you doing Chocolate?

Ilovechocolate111 · 04/09/2017 17:57

Seen a doctor today and they said I've miscarriage. They said no need to scan me as they did a test and said negative. I've just got to retake a test in 2 weeks. Never mind 😀 how are you all doing xx

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TheChineseChicken · 04/09/2017 19:33

Sorry to hear that. Have the pain and bleeding improved? I've been there and it's really hard so you have my sympathies

Ilovechocolate111 · 04/09/2017 20:51

Bleeding is just like a period and I haven't had any pain at all

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Brenna24 · 04/09/2017 22:15

So sorry Flowers

Both of my ones at 5 weeks were lighter than a period, although with a lot of cramping. It is amazing how little there is to them at that stage (for me at least).

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