Heartbroken

[kayleigh612]

So back in April i miscarried it was the most upsetting thing to have gone through for me and my partner
Anyway last week we got our first positive test! Over the moon!
Only he wasn't so excited well that's how it seemed
He's stopped calling as much ringing as much
And today was our first midwife appointment I've messaged and called all day and had no reply no answer so he's missed the appoitment

My heads a mess with it just needed a vent really X

Sorry to hear that. How did it go?

Why don't you guys live together if you're trying for a baby?

Sorry to hear about your experience. My exH was there in person but not emotionally through pregnancy.
Did the appointment go ok?

Do you have support in RL?

His son has a disability and requires constant care so at the moment we do live apart which has always been the way due to care his son needs

The appointment it's self went fine
But after the miscarriage I was more than nervous to explain things and talk trough everything again on my own
I just can't believe he hasn't called or rang no nothing what so ever all day on the day I needed him
I have a an appoitment tomoz with the hospital for cells they found on my cervix which is nerve racking in its self
But I just don't feel I can rely on him for support right now

Just feel so sorry for you. I am trying to get pregnant for years and nothing happens. I am a healthy person, as far as I know, but I just cannot get pregnant. I may admit that I had anorexia for 8 years in a row, that's the only thing I can think of about...But it's over me...I don't know where to search for...Trying to get as much money as we can so we will find a great clinic to help us get a child

I had bulimia years ago
Keep ur thoughts positive X

I don't think that is anymore a problem. I am now at normal weight, but we think finally we have a problem with my hubby, he's much older than me. Still in a search for a good medical team which are very understandable (I hate those that are not). I catched my eye on one, will explore everything and come back with an info or did we succided

Could it be that he is scared of another miscarriage and finding it hard to accept at the moment? You both need to support each other though, he needs to help you as well though.

we are really opened to each other and talk about everything, he's more emotional than me. but somehow he may feels like disappointing to me, as you've said...i feel that it's that way :((( need to find a med professional asap