I'm bleeding :(

[Mumtobejan2017]

Morning all

Woke up this morning with fresh blood when I wiped. Been to the loo about 10 times now and still bleeding :(

I've had bad back ache for 2 days and period type pains.

Waiting for the midwife to call me back

So upset :(

So sorry, I have been there too and know how devastating it is. Take care of yourself

Thank you ladies and sorry for your losses.

Last night there was quite a lot of bright red blood, I was dreading what I would wake up to.

Today it's gone back to brown, I have back ache, pelvis ache and my sides feel like they are pulling downwards.
I guess this is the start of the cramping?

Did anyone else have a spout of red blood, back to brown and then red again? How long did it take for the red come back?

I'm on the loo every 10 mins checking as I keep feeling a 'gush' although nothing there as of yet.

Thanks

I also want to mention I am B RH neg. I haven't been offered any anti D or anything yet. Do you think il be okay until tomorrow
Morning when I have my EPU visit?

Sorry to read your updates OP. Thinking of you x

Oh op

It does sound very similar to my bleed with my now 7 year old. It was bright red and lots of it then it would slow and go brown stop and then start again. It went on for a good two weeks it was a horrible time.

Still have everything crossed for you that you have a happy outcome too. Are you being scanned tomorrow?

I have no experience with rh neg blood though sorry.

I just have an awful feeling about this, especially as I had shooting pains on Wednesday that made me stop and catch my breath.
Throughout the whole pregnancy I've never been able to picture the baby being here, I think maybe it was mothers intuition.

I never had any of this with my DS either.

I am being scanned tomorrow
Morning at 1045.
But I am slowly loosing hope as the days go on.

Such an awful thing for any woman to go through.

I'm so sorry you're going through this. I've had two mc and I had the same feeling of something just not being right well before any physical signs of it.

I have bled with all my others too so it's possible everything could be fine but I understand where you're coming from.

I'm glad you're being scanned tomorrow. The waiting and not knowing is terrible

With regards to the Anti-d, it varies trust to trust. I've both been given it and not given it after a mmc under 12 weeks, and the guidelines keep changing. Keeping everything crossed for you for your scan tomorrow x

Sorry your going through this. I've had two losses in 5 pregnancies, mine were 9 weeks (mmc) and 10 weeks (SCH). They are devastating. Bleeding so heavily is not a good sign and bleeding with pain compounds it. Still wishing you the best though xxx

Thank you and sorry for your losses.

I had only been having light brown all day today but I've just had a bath and the heavy red blood it back so I have prepared for the worst.

so sorry OP but have you actually passed any clots yet?

i had bleeding at 6 weeks quite a lot for a whole week and i'm
now nearly 36weeks so it's not always bad news

fingers crossed and i'm thinking of you it's a horrible scary time xxxx

I will be thinking of you tomorrow morning

Thinking of you op

Thinking of you and hoping for some good news. It's so bloody hard

Fingers crossed it's not bad news in the morning x

No clots as of yet.

Wednesday: bad shooting pains through my back, make me stop and catch my breath.

Thursday. Bad back ache all the way across the bottom.

Friday: one red bleed, followed by brown stringy discharge all day along with period pain.

Saturday. Heavy pelvis area. No bleeding all day. A bit of brown

10pm bright red bleeding.

Sunday. Woke up with brown when wiping.
Not much all day.
4pm lots of red blood and had been ever since.
Bad back ache all day.
Heavy pelvis.
Light cramping now starting.
Feels like my back is stretching all the way along the back.

Thank you ladies.
To make things worse, my partner and I split before I found out I was pregnant, he has said he wouldn't have anything to do with the baby and practically begged me to have an abortion as we weren't getting back together. I am so lonely, going through this alone and I won't have the chance anytime soon to try again.
I don't know how I am going to cope with this hence why I keep posting on here.

Oh op I'm so sorry. keep posting here. Do you have any real life support too someone that can physically hold your hand? Mum, sister or a friend?

My friend has been with me this afternoon. I had only told her along with my mum (only a few days ago). I've just text my mum, I didn't want to upset her on Fathers day as it's a difficult day for her herself.
My mum is going to come with my in the morning.
I don't show emotions well so I just try to sit on my own crying.
I don't know what I am supposed to do from here.

Hand holding for tomorrow

I'm glad you've not been alone today and you will have your mum for support tomorrow.

Take one day at a time. I'm here with a handhold whatever the outcome of your scan. Please be kind to yourself there's no wrong way to deal with any of this. If you are more comfortable to have a good cry in private then that's fine.

I'm so sorry for the stress and worry.
Take time to take care of yourself- whatever happens it's a hard road once the innocence of positive test = baby is eroded.

thinking of you today op

Read through this last night and Im thinking of you and the horrible situation you're in! Hoping this morning goes well! Hand holding

Thank you all for your support.

I am going to leave for the hospital shortly.

The bleeding has got worse now and the first tiny clot just came when I wiped.

I have never been so upset in my life.

@Mumtobejan2017
So sorry, it's an awful time! Thinking of you today. Have you got a supportive partner?