Just found out I'm pregnant

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Well as the title says, I've just found out I'm pregnant (wasn't planned at all as was taking pill) I did a test yesterday afternoon and straight away it come up positive so I'm guessing I'm more than a couple of weeks??? I've told my partner but before he found out he always said he didn't want anymore children (we have a 9 month old so was a big shock to get a positive test) he didn't really say much when I told him and I'm confussed as to what I want, I don't think I've got it in my to have an abortion but my son is only 9 months and still a baby himself , advice please x

Didn't want to read and run but I know a couple of people with children close together and they love the gap. Embrace it and go for it!

Thanks for the advice just abit scared that's all

I think even with planned pregnancies the hormones make you quite anxious in these first few weeks... You'll be fine :)

Of course you will be surprised, it wasn't planned. Many fathers are shocked, but mother nature gives us 9 months to get used to the idea and plan.
I had my eldest two 15 months apart, lots of people said how do you cope?
Honestly I hadn't moved on from the baby stage, so having a new born was a continuation.
Good luck

My son was 5 months when I found out pregnant with my second son. At this point I also had a two year d daughter! First two were planned but I fell pregnant using contraception with third. I was so into baby mode I honestly didn't find it a struggle. Pregnancy and birth was fine too

There is 18 months between my two. I found out when ds1 was 10 months. Yiu will be fine xx

My sister was only 5 months old when I accidentally implanted! We're best friends now. She was only in the year above in school and the gap was just great.

It'll be difficult for a little while but then in a couple of years so much easier! They'll entertain each other and play