Hi Ladies,
I am 17 weeks pregnant and trying to stay calm....
Just need guidance and a good moan really. Saturday morning, been in bed with the flu for three days, but DH realises ive been getting better slowly as put a wash on or had a shower, so any help he has been providing has stopped instantly, washing load is getting bigger. DS7 is crying all the time, needing my attention but DH just shouts at him not solving anything.
DH has been brilliantish whilst I've been ill (as helpful as he thinks he needs to be) so need to accept that he isn't a domestic godness like myself.
I have woken up this morning feeling very teary and feel like I need extra help today as I am tired. DH7 is answering back and constantly wanted to eat saying he is bored he has had a large bowl of porridge and fruit and yogart already this morning. I have banned tv and I pad for 1 week as I think this may help him...DH is answering back also and just being bloody rude(excuse my French)
I just feel like I am battling two people at the moment and don't want to feel stressed as the baby will also feel all this.
Is anyone else feeling this way or am I just not rationalising this.
As I am sat here writing this DH is unloading dishwasher without me asking :/ WHAT IS GOING ON two mins is was chaos and I thought I wasn't going to get through the day. Ds7 is happily playing with Lego now grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr all that stress for nothing... HELP ME X