When to tell?

[Hotpinkangel19]

I'm 9-10 weeks pregnant with baby no 4. I have 3 other children 6,9 and 11. When should I tell them? I have bad sickness at the moment and DS6 is worried I'm ill and will need to go to hospital. I've tried the tummy bug but it's going on too long now! Scan not until 3rd July x

Same here but mine are 6 and 4 so a little more oblivious. We are waiting until after the scan in case of bad news.

This is what I'm thinking, but my mum died on Monday and I don't want them thinking that I'm ill too ☹️ I don't know how else to explain the sickness x

The 11 year old in particular might worry - could you tell just them? Actually I would consider a private scan for reassurance and then tell them. I waited months to tell mine but I had a history of miscarriage.
Very sorry for your loss

The 11 year old in particular might worry - could you tell just them? Actually I would consider a private scan for reassurance and then tell them. I waited months to tell mine but I had a history of miscarriage.
Very sorry for your loss