I went to a VBAC meeting today. I am consultant lead and they made a massive cock up at the start of the pregnancy by sending me letters and texts for appts which either never existed or did at one point exist but all got cancelled. I turned up to a meeting with a letter and a text but the appt wasn't on the system. No appts were 
I spoke to PALS about it all as it happened in my previous pregnancy too and as a result I got a lot of appts through at once.
One was to have a vbac talk today and then a 28 week check up with the consultant rather than the midwife - who I didn't see in my previous pregnancy much either till the end.
At today's meeting a diff consultant said I didn't need to see the consultant for my appts now, I could go back to community midwife. Fine. She would cance the 28 week appt. Fine.
We both went to the reception desk and she asked the lady at the desk to cancel the 28 week one and offer it out to someone else.
Reception lady said in hushed tones, oh that's a Thursday so no she couldn't cancel as it's a specialist clinic. What was that for, asked my consultant. It's for mental health said the reception lady. 
I went over and said sorry, what?! Reception lady said Thursday appts were for acacia team and she couldn't cancel. I asked my consultant directly, Why wasn't I told I was referred to the mental health team as I had no reason to be?
Consultant said there was nothing in the notes about that and Reception lady said but she had been told last week that Thursdays are for Acacia Team. My appt was made months ago. So consultant then said perhaps it's just a cross over, I was already down to be seen on that day and now acacia also runs at the same time.
Reception lady then cancelled. WTF has happened here? Have I been referred to mental health without my knowledge? I looked through the notes, the day we made all these appts it just says "see at 28w". Paranoid and confused now.