hi I am 34 weeks pregnant with my second child but with my first I had a very traumatic birth which included ventouse, shoulder dystocia and epistotomy. I amm being monitored with growth scans and on my last scan it shows baby weighing approx 6 pounds already, I have to see a consultant in a few weeks but I am so anxious about what might happen, has anyone ever been through this before or have any advice to put my mind at ease?