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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Update is it disdiagnosis miscarriage

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Staceywilliams24 · 23/04/2017 01:41

Hi I did a post last week about the trouble I been having. Long story and can't really type that good so please bare with me and I can't spell either anyway I found out on 13th April 2017 that am pregnant I did 4 normal test come up faint line. I then did 4 clear blue digital test shows pregnant 1/2 weeks. I then been to walking care centre nurse did a test and book me in for early pregnancy scan as I was unsure with my dates and pervious miscarriage's I had in the past and because I had little pain in my belly. On 17th April I went to early pregnancy unit they told me not to drink water and to empty my bladder which I don't understand. The nurse told me am 7weeks I told her she wrong as am only to early anyway other nurse did a normal scan and internal scan which she hurt me by moving to much she said there is a tiny sac but no baby she was so rude and negative told me that I have either already lost or I be having miscarriage I told her no as I haven't bleed. I went to see other nurse she said it could be very early pregnancy and to come back in 2 weeks for other scan. She did bloods test which she hadn't had a clue how to take bloods anyway I rang them and the woman on phone told me it is low for being 7weeks ( which I told her am not 7 weeks am 2 weeks pregnant ) but said there is still pregnancy in my hcg bloods and said to come back on Wednesday to repeat it see if it goes double or not on go pregnancy. On 19th I went back to repeat my bloods seen different nurse and she was horrible she told me get ready to bad news she took my bloods again I rang them she said my hcg gone down and told me not to bother for a scan just to come back for more bloods I then told her to forget I get second option as you did same thing with my 6 year old son. I had low hcg with him and told me I will end up miscarriage but I didn't. That later on on that day I spoke to different hospital I spoke to nurse in early pregnancy unit told her what been said and she told me that they not meant to say that to me at all and said if I miscarriage I won't have a sac there and told me I am very early and it will not show baby on scan only small sac and hcg it is not very low in danger zone but is low but she said not to worry as I am early . I haven't spot or even bleed at all. All I got is sore boobs and discharge she told me to try to relax and see me on 28th . On 18th April I spoke to male and female doctor they have said the same what other hospital said and told me not to worry if I bleed go to a+e. I am keep going to let to check down there to see if am bleeding but only white discharge yes am over paranoid and worrying to much I can't help it as I suffer gad I do have cramp pain in my belly but that cause my ibs playing up as am stress and I feel like my period going to come for days like am waiting but that cause baby getting ready or in it place . Has anyone had same problem

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Staceywilliams24 · 04/05/2017 02:04

Thank you well the bleeding as stop no blood on new pad but still bit blood when I wipe myself still no cramps or pain I even been sick for first time. My head is all over the place it 2am and still can't sleep at all worrying to much so think I should go to scan they made for me tomorrow instead do waiting on 16th was the 12th but changed it on 16th but now coz of this I don't think I can wait before I been sick I was very hot my body was to hot to touch and sweating and shaking then I been sick that looks like wee xx

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Sweetyboo · 04/05/2017 08:17

Stacey i hope all goes well for you hun xx

Staceywilliams24 · 04/05/2017 11:01

Thank you sweetyboo. It took me hours to get some sleep but finely went to sleep and woke up no blood not even a wipe of blood so finger's crossed everything be fine x

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whattheactualfudge · 04/05/2017 16:10

Any update? X

Staceywilliams24 · 04/05/2017 17:10

They put it down as inconclusive early pregnancy they unsure if it on going pregnancy or not so they done blood test to see if it gone high or low. They did internal scan the sac as gone big but no baby but inside the sac is not black it white and grey so they don't know at all they said am 4/6week's but if my blood come back down and same on saturday then I have to go on 15th for other scan to see if my sac gone. I am heart broken

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Staceywilliams24 · 04/05/2017 17:14

But the sac not circle it like smaller ball like a head and big ball like a body so not having good pregnancy now am thinking everything negative x

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MissBax · 04/05/2017 17:41

Hope you're okay and obviously try and keep calm, but please don't suggest to people to just "tell a clinic they have pain" in order to get an early scan. It's very normal to have stomach cramps in early pregnancy as your uterus expands and changes shapes/grows. If you have a temperature, sharp and sudden stabbing pains, or bleeding then go and get an early scan, but not just because you're anxious. Not enough research has gone into risks of using ultrasound unnecessarily in pregnant and could actually do more harm than good to your baby, not to mention rinsing NHS funding. Hope everything works out :) x

Staceywilliams24 · 04/05/2017 17:59

No I had a scan coz of other miscarriage's and Coz I was bleeding last night but don't think any good news jst have to wait for phone call see if it gone down or double and if it goes down on 15th have to get other scan see if sac gone and if it doesn't I will need get treatment x

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MissBax · 04/05/2017 18:25

Ahhh sorry I didn't see your last messages before! Xxx

Staceywilliams24 · 04/05/2017 20:30

My bloods come back she said it 20000 is that good thing or bad thing but still need repeat rest on Saturday to see if it will double up anymore xx

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Staceywilliams24 · 08/05/2017 12:13

My blood come back and I don't know if it normal or low any way 4th it was 2151 got it wrong as i thought she said 2000 and 6th is risk up to 2408 but he said not how they want to it to be but he said I got to go back for other scan and more blood test on 11th am still worrying and can't stop worrying which is has made my gad and ibs a lot worse. Spotting is on n off when I wipe or try for a poo which it hard for me to poo then pink SpottING or when I stand up. If am going lose it will my bloods go down and not rising . Not enjoying this pregnancy at all like am meant to and I feel guilty for not enjoying it x

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mysecret321 · 19/05/2017 07:11

Hi OP how are you? Xxx

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