I'm 17 weeks and I have a visible bump but it's not hard as I was expecting? It's round and looks like a baby bump and it's firm/hard on the sides but the "roundness" at the front is still spongey? I've never had a flat tummy, but I've never been this big and round! Is it a combination of both? I don't feel at all bloated so it's not that I'm very confused!