I last saw my midwife at 16 weeks, whilst there she booked in my next appointment. I checked my notes a couple of weeks or so after my 20 week scan to see the date of this apt and noticed that she'd written "see next at 24/40" with the date 19/9/16.
I knew by then I would be well past the 24 weeks she had written, but also that as this isn't my first pregnancy, I would be seen at 28 weeks (which fit with the date she'd written) I decided to text her anyway and just point out the mistake and to make sure that the apt on the 29th was correct. I didn't get a reply, so text her the following friday (she only has her mobile in use on that day) and called but it went straight to voicemail. I turned up to the apt like I was supposed to & after waiting half an hour it was apparent she wasn't there, so I left. I then phoned the number for my maternity unit in my notes who forwarded me to the maternity unit she works from & they said they would leave a message for her (that was monday after the missed apt) I then tried her direct contact number on friday again, which was off, so phoned the unit again who said they would leave a message for her.
My pregnancy has been/is straight forward, but I'm aware at the 28week apt I should have my urine, bp and fundal height checked as well as bloods taken. I'm now 29 weeks and have no clue when I will next see my mw and can't even seem to contact her. I don't want to cause a fuss though.
I was thinking of waiting til wednesday and phoning back the maternity unit, or am I being too pushy?