baby 3. don't want to tell anyone.

[sophree]

I just found out I'm pregnant.
Baby no 3.
We weren't TTC nor were we using protection. Just seeing if anything happened really. So we spoke about having no birth control and wanting another, but never actually said "let's do it"
DP however will be over the moon, though a little word about finances etc..

Anyway i missed my period 2 weeks ago and thought I must be, started relating everything in my mind to pregnancy symptoms.

So today i took a test simply because I found one in my make up drawer, other wise I had had no desire to tell anyone? Or even myself?
I don't want to make a midwife appointment. Or talk to anyone about this. I just want to tell everyone when the baby comes...

Congratulations

I hope you feel better soon as you start to get your head around this.
Are you worried about other people being judgemental and nasty?

I'm pregnant with number also with number3. We spoke about another and both agreed we weren't against the idea. We dtd early in my cycle so didn't think it would happen really.
I don't want anyone to know either. I've been getting awful morning sickness and turning up to work green. I mostly get ignored anyway so nobody asks what's wrong. I'm worried about how family will react.

Yeah, a lot of my family thinks it's crazy I've already got 2. Never mind when I say 3.
I am happy about it, I love being a mum!
But maybe I'm mostly scared that other people are going to take any joy away from me..

I'm 16w with DC3 today and have still not told anyone apart from DH. Not a soul. DH has not told anyone either. I can feel baby movements strongly now so its starting to feel more real and I need to start telling people, starting with my kids. I'm so worried people will think I'm too fat (yes), too old (debatable), my house is too small (it is and we can't move)

Same here. We only have a 2 bed house. We don't want to move right now though. I've moved during pregnancy before and I cant face that. I need to get rid of things and make space but right now I'm to tired and sick.

Congrats to all of you, though - three wil be lovely!

I'm so glad I found this post today. I'm also pregnant with no3, found out a week ago but same as sophree, was just seeing what happened. Also dtd very early in cycle so no idea how!! I need to tell my DH tonight, he's been so stressed with a work deadline, I've been holding off telling him. I hope he's happy, im not sure I can physically say the words! I love being a mummy though, and I'm really happy