In the grand scheme of things this isn't that important, but it's a bit weird and it's bothering me. It's not a huge bump (am 21 weeks), it's neat and high and all forwards. But it's squishy, especially when I sit down. I'm not at all overweight, and when i saw some friends for the first time in months at the weekend they all commented that I don't look like I've gained any, except boobs and bump. But I have never ever had a flat, toned stomach. It's always been a bit squishy. Not rolls or anything. Slim, but squishy.
So...is this my bump or have I just weirdly gained weight and grown a belly?? Or is it a bit of both- a bump, with some belly fat over the top?
And, most importantly, does anyone else have this? I feel like every other woman I know either has a really toned stomach or is overweight so I have no-one to compare to, but every pregnant friend I've ever had has had a "solid" bump from what my can tell! Am I normal? Will it get more solid?