Slightly stressed so posting in case anyone else has experience of this. Currently 31w, first baby so I accept I may be worrying over nothing.
I find my cmw rushes and writes things in the book we haven't discussed or she hasn't done. So far she's listened to fetal heart beat only once, and measured me once. I'm usually in and out within 5 minutes.
Things have come to a head, as I had an additional growth scan at 28w which showed baby measuring 2-3 weeks behind. Looking back in my notes I see that when the cmw measured me at 26w, she measured 27cm. I say measured, but she found the number first on the tape measure (after asking how many weeks I was),placed her thumb on this then put the tape over my stomach which sure enough matched her 'measurement'.
I understand that fundal height and scans don't always match up. However, I've got more and more concerned following the growth scan so was sneaky and asked a friend who is a hospital based supervisory mw to measure me without telling her the other measurements. She measured me as 26cm after palpating my stomach etc- was quite shocked by this as nobody has ever done this before (cmw never has).
So, even with a substantial margin of error 26cm at 31w is way too small, and ties in with the growth scan at 28w which showed me measuring 2-3 weeks behind. I'm back with the cmw on Monday and feel I should raise this, but obviously this is now very awkward as I didn't rate her before and am even more inclined to question why she's not doing things by the book.
Any thoughts?