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DH parents not interested

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Jenjen85 · 12/03/2016 14:14

I'm currently pregnant with DC2 15wks 3days and we popped round to see DH parents today but not once did they ask about baby/if I was OK etc am I being too sensitive or is that just not nice? This pregnancy was a shock to us and everyone else but still I'd have at least expected a how you feeling but nothing. Sorry for moaning I think I need food Wink

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juniperdingleberries · 12/03/2016 14:26
Biscuit

Enjoy the peace and quiet and not having constant comments and fussing while you can, IMO.

whiteychappers · 12/03/2016 15:38

My in-laws are exactly the same! They don't really bother with my other half though, thought maybe a grandchild might make them bother a bit more. I play them at their own game now and don't tell them nothing, their loss!

AyeAmarok · 12/03/2016 15:42

How often do you see them?

Osirus · 12/03/2016 15:46

I'm 26 weeks and have not even seen my DP's parents!

Alb1 · 12/03/2016 16:40

I'm 28 weeks with DC2 and DHs parents have only just started to ask in the last couple of weeks, I think they asked more with DS1 but I'm
Not too sure now. I prefer it this way tho luckily

Isthereeverarightime1 · 12/03/2016 16:42

I'm 18 weeks and my dp's parents don't even know yet!

Jenjen85 · 12/03/2016 16:51

We seem the every 2-3 weeks ish so to not even ask if I was OK I thought was a bit off but to be fair I'm not their biggest fan and would rather not go round but I bite my tongue for DH. When we announced the pregnancy they didn't seemed that interested either

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Bejeena · 12/03/2016 16:59

I have had an awful pregnancy and been in a lot of pain and emotional strain after miscarriage last year and my in-laws are the same, it was really touch and go as to whether the baby would be OK over Christmas but they still didn't ask how I was or believe our concern, just assumed it would all be fine.

We are probably both being sensitive but pregnancy should allow that.

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