So, sorry if this is TMI but I noticed last night that the left side of my lady bits is a bit swollen… I mean the actual normal skin on the outside (not the 'flaps'). It's completely soft even when pushed in, there's no pain or hard lumps there at all etc, when I woke up this morning I very gently felt it and for a moment thought it had gone back to normal but it sort of started to swell out again a little. So although I googled and its where the Bartholins cyst would swell I don't think it's this and it's so incredibly soft and not at all red or painful etc. I did read that loads of weird and wonderful changes happen down there during pregnancy to the skin and muscles (I'm 16 weeks). I am a bit of a worry wart so don't want any scare stories just wanted to see if anyone had had anything similar! Thanks 