am i pregnant? im too scared to find out

[jessie123]

hiya, this year in June i unfortunantly had a miscarrage at three months. i was absolutly heart broken and to top it off my sister in law found out that she was 5 months pregnant and has gave birth to a beautiful boy this morning. I have not had a normal period since the miscarrage but have not had one since about october. i sometimes feel sick and i always have a fluttering feeling in the bottom of my stomach. do you think i am pregnant or it is just being upset about the new baby in the family. i am terrified to take a test because i no i will be really upset if it is negative. please give me some advise thankyou xxxx

oh hun... Its so hard. I think you should test, set your mind at ease... if you haven't been on since October, it's not as if you're only 1 day late. {{hugs}} You could wait for ages, but if you don't come on, you will have to test eventually {{hugs}}

You have to test babes... its the only way, you could be getting on for 3 months now... and if you are then you need to pass on the sherry over xmas!!!

Good luck!!!

xxx

please test, you have to know for your own piece of mind fingers crossed for you

you need to test, especially as xmas is near.

i know its hard, but here's all the good luck in the world!

Def think you should test and know for sure. It will put your mind at rest even if it's not what you want to see but at least you will know either way. On the other hand it might be good news. Good luck. xx

omg ive just done a test and i am pregnant!!! im sat at work now actually shaking i dont no whether to cry or laf. i havent told n e one like family or friends and i no it sounds stupid but i feel like everyone will think i copied my sister in law! wots up with me im been stupid!lol please message me cus im compleatly lost

OMG! Well done darling!!! {{HUGS}}

how far do you think you are? What was 1st day last period?

Well done and congratulations.

no one will think you copied SIL hun {{hugs}} im so happy for you xxx

omg soo soo soo pleased for you. have you called the docs yet?

so happy

Congrats. You're def not copying anyone so don't think that. You need to make an appointment with you dr though. Really pleased for you, well done. xx

What lovely news.

congrats jessie123.... sounds like you could be anouther july 07 mummy..

i cant spell -another...

yay! congrats!!!

congratulations Jessie, FANTASTIC news!!!! Keep us updated & make sure your call DR's ASAP!!!! xx

hiya all i reckon im about 8 weeks so yeah myt be a july baby. im booked in at my doctors tomorrow dinner time and im so nervous this will be my first child! whoo thankyou everyone for makin me realise i need to take a test asap ive took 3 now cus still cant believe it. went to see my sister in laws baby last night, a healthy 9 pounds he's gorgeous. im so excited!!!! i can't believe im gonna be a mummy!!

so so so happy for you hun, take things easy and enjoy this

Have you told any friends or family yet? Ditto what merrylissiemas said, take things easy and enjoy. Hope all goes well.

Wow! congratulations well done you - fab fab news - what a great xmas pressie for you both - take is easy!

thankyou everyone. No i havent told n e one yet. Gonna tell my mum after being to doctors and no all is well. But it is the best christmas present eva!