Feel so alone.

[Mummystar123]

My ex has gone back to his 'real' girlfriend (long story on another thread), he messaged me today and said 'if you have a termination we can get back together and make a real go of it, but if you keep it I can never see you again'. I told him I'm keeping the baby. I can't believe he is being so cruel, I love him but he is a lying cheating scumbag and It hurts so so much. I'm sorry for the downer but I just feel so so low.
Thanks guys x

You are better off without him.

Soon you will have a lovely baby, who you will love more than you ever could imagine.

Do you have any friends or family you could call up/visit? If not, could you browse nice baby clothes online and dream of a couple of outfits you might get for your little one.

Your better off without him. If you abort then you two will not be together. I know this sounds a bit harsh but the last thing you want to do is be taken in by him.

You will have a beautiful baby soon and then when a bit of time passes you will find someone who loves you and the baby.

What is your family support like?

Family will not approve as I split from husband 2 years ago so this baby will be seen by everyone except me and my children as a huge mistake. I love my baby already x

OP I am so sorry. Not an easy situation. I have no advice. But here to listen if you need to talk. Only you know what to do. And I think you know the answer, you said you would keep the baby and you are already in love with it. I know what you mean, only a mum can understand that, I did not understand until I had my own children. Whatever decision you make, don't let anyone's judgment interfer. The biological dad, your family other than your children. Hugs