have no one to turn to...

[Iwouldneverbotheryou]

My dp is at work and I can't contact him until break times. I don't really have anyone else I trust to talk to.

Basically I'm worried I'm pg. We are not ttc, DS1 is only 14 weeks, fgs . I have been feeling a bit off it but usally do this time it year I tend to be ill or recovering between September and March
Apart from dp commenting on my boobs looking bigger I haven't had symptoms until this morning I have been throwing up. (also my belly looks bigger, but I haven't been the healthiest lately)
Thing is, my last AF came on 21st October. So my possibly stupid questions are, if I were pg:
Would it be possible to be having sickness so early ? (was quite severe with ds but not quite HG)
Would it be too early to test? Calculators say poas on 20th Nov?
Could I have ovulated early? Had a period last month but still be pg?
And my last question which sounds really selfish. I have a small night out planned tonight, first one since having ds back in August. If I tested negative today, went out and had a few drinks, then went on to test positive on Nov 20th, would this have an effect on the baby? (haven't even decided what ifs, yet but wouldn't like to take risks)
TIA and thanks if you could actually follow this.
As I say I have no one else right now.

Hi sorry ur feeling like this. Cant offer any advice as my cycle is all over the place, and my own gp had me 6 weeks further than I actually was. Just didn't want u to feel so alone xxx

i had a drink the night before i got my bfp after testing negative that morning. My doctor said it was very unlikely that any damage was done.

Id a drink.the week before.

you could always try a test theres no harm in it although it may still be too early for a positive result. And when i was ttc i tested on the friday morning as i had nights out planned for friday and saturday and got negative results - i went out and enjoyed myself - then tested positive on the monday. I told my midwife and she was ok she said most people have a drink but try not to worry about it as i was very early days. I'm 34 weeks tomorrow with a healthy pregnancy so i haven't been too concerned. you'll be fine just maybe don't go ott with the shots lol

Thanks all for the replies.

Have tested negative today, will test again Friday or after if no AF.

It's not that I'm too fussed about getting wasted but I've had it planned a while and yknow how it is, if you don't drink people ask questions

At risk of oversharing, feeling a bit funny at the other end so hopefully just a dodgy stomach.

We are using condoms but not on BC and I am a worrier!

Go and enjoy yourself. And take ur mind off it. I was drinking both nights the weekend before my bfp. Hadn't a clue. So glad I wasn't as far as gp thought I was. Meant that was the only time I drank

Looking back I drank the weekend before my bfp with DS and was fine and certainly won't be drinking so much tonight, I'm still out of practice for a start!

I have a friend who is always on the pill and the amount of hand holding I've done while she poas! Honestly some of us women get a bit paranoid!

I went on holiday and it was a milestone holiday paid for by my DP I got wasted the whole two weeks we was there. I got back noticed I hadn't come on and there I was 9 weeks gone. I felt so bad but docs told me not to worry. I'm now 32 weeks and plain sailing pregnancy strong heartbeat perfect measurements. a few scares as first time mum and didn't know what they was but still going plain sailing. try not to worry. hard I know but don't dwell on it :) enjoy your night