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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

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Katieemilyxo · 01/11/2015 12:33

I'm 17 and had my first baby three months ago I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend once and now I'm getting the same symptoms I had before with my son the lower back pain tiredness feeling dizzy and sick i'dk if it's pms I'm so worried I don't know what I'll do if I'm pregnant again :(

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QforCucumber · 01/11/2015 12:39

When is your period due?
First thing you need to do is take a test and find out if you actually are pregnant, then you can think about what's next.

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Katieemilyxo · 01/11/2015 12:51

I fell pregnant around the exact same time last year with my son my last period was the same with my last 16th of October and my cycle is 25 days getting everything the same :(

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goodnightdarthvader1 · 01/11/2015 13:32

Why did you have unprotected sex???

Take a test.

Toraleistripe · 01/11/2015 13:35

Take a test. Then if it's negative find some good contraception and start using it every time you have sex. Better still get the implant.

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Katieemilyxo · 01/11/2015 14:05

I'dk what's the heat of the moment I feel so stupid:( I made a apoitment for the pill

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FattyNinjaOwl · 01/11/2015 14:07

You need to take a test. You won't know unless you do.

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Katieemilyxo · 01/11/2015 14:07

Was-

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Katieemilyxo · 01/11/2015 14:08

I don't think I can yet as it's to soon soon as I get closer to my period I will i'dk what I'm going to do if I am again:(

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PotteringAlong · 01/11/2015 14:09

Stop having unprotected sex is what you need to do!

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Katieemilyxo · 01/11/2015 14:11

I know we had protected the whole time apart from the once after I had my son :(

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FattyNinjaOwl · 01/11/2015 14:12

Well if you are you have three options. Abortion, adoption or keep the child.
If not then stop having unprotected sex.
But until you do a test and get on the pill then get some condoms. Why aren't you on the pill already? Contraception should have been discussed at your six week check.

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Katieemilyxo · 01/11/2015 14:16

Because I'm a idiot and I couldn't go through abortion:(

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FattyNinjaOwl · 01/11/2015 14:21

That's fine. But if you really couldn't face an abortion you need to use contraception.
I'm not saying this because of your age or anything, just because its true. I'm 24 and I have 3 DCs. I was 17 when I had my first. He's now 7. The other two are 22 months and 3 months. So I know what it's like to be a young mum and what it's like having a close age gap.

goodnightdarthvader1 · 01/11/2015 14:24

The whole time? Are you saying you had protected sex while you were pregnant?

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Katieemilyxo · 01/11/2015 14:25

No I mean after I had my son

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goodnightdarthvader1 · 01/11/2015 16:29

Was your son the result of unprotected sex as well?

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Katieemilyxo · 01/11/2015 17:01

Yes :/

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FattyNinjaOwl · 01/11/2015 17:03

Was your son the result of unprotected sex as well?
Grin that's usually how it happens!

I think what goodnight means is
Was your DS planned?

chocfireguard · 01/11/2015 17:29

The title of your thread is 'scared'. I think that people are being quite judgemental and are forgetting how you must already be feeling without any additional lectures. You clearly know very well what the consequences of unprotected sex are. My advice would be to take ownership of the situation, do a test when your dates suit, and then have a conversation with your boyfriend. You will need to decide if you are able to give a baby a loving, nurturing home, and how you will manage practically and financially.

goodnightdarthvader1 · 01/11/2015 18:59

I'm sure she is scared, but some personal responsibility is required. Having had 1 unplanned baby (I'm guessing from her answer), she's now in a position to have another. There comes a point when you throw up your hands and say "Really?"

What does the OP want us to do, other than work some magic and make her and her boyfriend go back in time and not be so silly?

Op, your options are

  1. Do a test when you can
  2. If you're pregnant, abort, adopt or keep
  3. Buy some fecking condoms and use them. Every time.
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Katieemilyxo · 01/11/2015 20:16

We did use them it's only the once we didn't In the heat of the moment I was such a idiot :( going to try get the pill tommorow asap

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CityMole · 01/11/2015 20:32

You're going to get the pill tomorrow Asap? Possibly too late for that pet, unless you mean emergency contraception, and you're within 72 hours of having sex. If your last period was 16th, then you would have been most fertile Friday, yesterday and today- are you saying you feel pregnancy symptoms within a day of conception, because that is really strange. When was this unprotected sex? Try to stay calm if you can. If it was this weekend then there is always the chance that emergency contraception can help you. Do you have a friend or family member who can help you?

CityMole · 01/11/2015 20:34

Just read that you have a slightly short cycle- so your fertile period may have been midweek. The same applies however. It would be shockingly poor luck if your one occasion of having unprotected sex happened to be be right when you were ovulating.

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Katieemilyxo · 01/11/2015 21:35

It was just realised we had sex the same day same date I conceived my son last flipping year

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Katieemilyxo · 10/11/2015 22:18

Have missed my period :( but taken a pregnancy test amd it came back negative

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