Hello, I posted last week about being a married mother with two sons (ages 2 and 4.5) and finding out I am pregnant with a third, completely unplanned and unexpected. My husband has now made it clear that he thinks it's a mistake to go forward with it (for a variety of reasons, including many 'practical' considerations). I told him this morning that there is no right decision because no matter what, I think that one of us will resent the other. If I terminate, it will be because of his lack of support and I will likely resent him and if I decide to go forward with the pregnancy, he will likely resent me when life becomes that much more chaotic and stressful once baby is born.
I have been reading a lot of old posts and I know everyone's situation is different but the theme seems to be that anyone who has terminated seems to regret it or thinks about what they did every day (this is the biggest fear I have). Is there anyone out there who was in a similar situation to me and terminated and thinks they made the RIGHT decision in doing so? I would be grateful to hear from both sides (regrets and no regrets).