NC for this completely embarrassing post. I'm a regular poster not some kind of weird troll!
I'm VERY pregnant and for pretty much this whole pregnancy I have been hugely swollen downstairs
My first pregnancy was nothing like this, I had a bit of swelling in my first tri, all calm in the second and a little bit close to the end.
This time it's been constant. DH and I haven't had sex since about March as the swelling has meant he's struggled to get it in and is been very painful if he has been able to.
Over the last week or so I've noticed that my clitorus has become quite sore, as well as the sensitive skin to the sides. I've finally bit the bullet and inspected with the hand mirror this morning and have noticed that it is so swollen that the skin has now cracked and is raw.
As you can probably appreciate, it's really painful! Is there anything I could safely apply for a bit of relief/to make it heal faster? Bag of frozen peas maybe? 