PSA: If you have unprotected sex and post here..

[BexusSugarush]

Your first concern should NOT be that you're pregnant. It's completely irrelevant what symptoms or intuition you believe may be compelling you to post here asking whether you're pregnant, your first point of call should be a doctors office to check for STI's.

We're not judging you for having unsafe sex (many, many of us have done it), we're worried that your priorities aren't in line.

Stop being so worried about an unplanned pregnancy; if you have an unplanned STI you could end up being infertile.

Er that's all fine and good but I would expect quite a few people posting here are planning a pregnancy within long-term relationships so don't exactly need to be running down to the STI clinic.

We're not judging you

That's great, thanks. Who's "we"?

It's completely irrelevant what symptoms or intuition you believe may be compelling you to post here

This is pregnancy forum, you do realise that, don't you? So pregnancy symptoms are, in fact, rather relevant. Perhaps your "concern" would be better applied elsewhere?

Well I went to the STI clinic every single time my steady monogamous partner of 6 years and I had unprotected sex, during the two years we were trying to conceive. Imagine my shock when the missed period turned out not to be syphillis for once, but a baby! WTF.

at Warren

warren. But it's a pregnancy board, clues in the name. I actually really object to your last sentence as well, without going too far into my own personal circumstances, sweeping statements like that from a non medical professional (I assume) caused me years of worry.