Basically, I went to see the midwife at my booking in appt and she explained about all the screening tests (although not very well - she mainly explained the conditions downs, edwards, patau's - and very little about the tests).
I remember about miscarriage risk mentioned etc, and then she talked about aborting a baby that could be breathing and I started crying and said no I don't want any tests please, just my normal 12 week scan.
So she put declined down on my notes.
Anyway, at the end she said your date will come through much quicker, as you've declined the other tests, and I didn't really know what she meant. I was booked in past 11 weeks, so I'm just happy to get my scan date in asap.
But this morning my letter comes through and the appt is with the midwife, not the sonographer.
With DC1 and DC2 I had the nuchal test done as part of 12 week dating scan. This is the test I wanted with DC3, so it would give me a possible indication of Down's. But it just looks like a dating scan.
Is the nuchal test not part of the scan anymore?
Now I don't know what do to. At the time she said, it's good you don't want any extra tests done, as with your booking in so late, you wouldn't get it done before 14 weeks now anyway.
So now I'm confused. Any ideas?
I've tried to phone up the antenatal clinic but it's always 'call back later when we're not so busy' and that's it.
Sorry for the long ramble...x