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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

I've been so stupid. Can you offer perspective?

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Alex18123 · 19/06/2015 13:00

Hello.
I am writing here as I have recently found out I am pregnant. Although I am unsure of the father.(i am truely ashamed)
I had my last menstrual period 16 may 15' I had regular unprotected sex with my ex up untill around 27,28, we then split up and I foolishly had a one night stand with an old friend in the early hrs of the 3rd of June. He did not ejacute inside of me. He had a shower and we had sex again but he was unable to finish.
I did a clear blue digital conception indicator test last monday just gone that said pregnant 2-3 weeks.
who is most likely to be the father?
I usually ovulate around 13 days after lmp judging by 3previous pregnancies with my ex.
I am thinking 3rd of june would have been too far past ovulation to be my friends?

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Alex18123 · 20/06/2015 09:40

Dad*

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Alex18123 · 20/06/2015 09:45

And this is this is what I have read on precum

"as this fluid does not contain sperm it can't by itself cause a pregnancy. However as the purpose of this fluid is to flush out the penis it will bring any sperm left in the penis from the last ejaculation to the tip of the penis. If this happens that small amount of sperm could cause a pregnancy.

Also no I can't rely on dates 100% but if they stay pretty consistent then id say its a good indicator.

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Alex18123 · 20/06/2015 09:48

Also there is only six days each month a woman can get pregnant. I didnt have sex with more than one person in my fertile window either.

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Alex18123 · 20/06/2015 09:49

Logically I want an indication for myself, my own mind.

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goodnessgraciousgouda · 20/06/2015 10:26

OP - No-one on this thread is agreeing with you. I'm sorry that's a harsh way of putting it, but maybe you should take heed. You seem to be getting angry that people aren't saying what you want to hear.

My aunt was told that she was totally infertile after spending TWELVE YEARS trying to conceive. She then went on to have three children without any kind of fertility treatment. It happens.

How can you possibly know for sure that your friend did not ejaculate in you to any extent or degree?

You can know there is a higher chance that your ex is the father, but you can't tell him flat out that he is.

Alex18123 · 20/06/2015 10:35

No im not getting angry at all. Tbf only a couple have said 50/50 majority of people I have asked have agreed it is most likely my exes baby. I know my friend did not ejaculate inside of me to any degree. I know that for a fact. I'd rather not go into specifics but we didn't have straight sex first time round. And second time he couldnt keep it up to be blunt. And no you are correct I can not be positive. I didn't say anywhere I could be. But rationaly if I was looking in with all the facts I have. Then id be thinking exs.

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Alex18123 · 20/06/2015 10:36

Either way it doesn't matter who is the dad. I know my friend would worship the ground it would walk on.

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