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Well pissed off.
weekend before last was really stressful had a close friend round an her partner and 2 kids come to stay on the Thursday eve meant to be till the sat eve. (They live 90 mile away) so they ended up staying till the Monday, their son has adhd and is extremely hyper, naughty and rude ....He is 6 and did nothing but jump over the furniture Swear at my 11 year old and pushed my 2yr old over several times. My 11yr old has adhd but his was on another scale!! It took me 2 days to get my house back to normal and is was just stressy.
Had a bad week in general arguing with the oh and several other issues which seem huge when your 34 weeks preggers ! Anyway it resulted in me bring in lots of pain last weekend and then a hospital visit on Tuesday as thought I was in preterm labour. Turns out everything ok so went home and was ordered to rest up as they said over doing things is nit a good idea. Tuesday and Wednesday night in loads of pain again with braxton hicks/contractions whatever just had no sleep. The past few nights have been better and actually had dome pain free days
so was looking forward to a nice chilled weekend and OHS cousin turns up with his 2 kids last night at 7PM wanting to crash here?!!! Oh was like 1 night blah blah he's just split from his gf etc etc.....ok 1 night. Anyhow he has been here all day ....kids have trashed the house, half bottle of coke spilt all over the fuckin sofa crisps trodden in everywhere etc you get the picture. Go the toilet and the seats left up covered in piss. Am just so mad everyone making lots of mess and noise. Now there staying another night!!!! Wouldn't mind but his mum lives down the road so why can't he stay there?? Am 35 weeks pregnant, going through some sort of nesting so mad cleaning everywhere and can do without other people and their kids crashing on us.
It's really unfair.

Am seething and am about to explode!!!!
Oh and now the frikkin pain is back

Go to a hotel. Seriously. Tell oh that you expect the place clean and guest free on your return and just piss off.

Oh I feel for you. Sounds like an absolute nightmare!

I would be so pissed off right now too! And to be honest I don't think you'd be unreasonable if you told your guest he's outstayed his welcome! Does he clean up after himself even? Are you having to cook for them? If so just be blunt. You need some consideration ffs!

I 1000% agree with NikkiEds!
You don't need this. Take you and your kids (if your oh can't have them) and stay somewhere away from the situation. Or if that's not an option take yourself off to a spa somewhere and chill out for the day and get your oh to sort the house out, you need to be relaxing not stressing yourself out x

Oh no that sounds awful poor you - I completely understand how pissed off you must be. I have told my other half that nobody will be staying at our house during my last 2 months of pregnancy as I have enough to do clearing up after him and DC1! I would tell your other half to get rid of them - no arguments. You need to think about you and the baby and that's trying to relax and be stress-free. Good luck.

Tell your oh unless he wishes to meet his next child early and visit them in SCBU he needs to get rid of the house guest and the house back to how it looked before they arrived. This is the reality you are talking about and why you have been told to take it easier. You've had one scare this week, you now need to be focusing on not having it happen again. He and his family aren't hellling and I'm amazed you've even survived until this evening.
If you can't go to a hotel, go to a friends or family. I'd be toted to leave the other kids with him as well. You need to focus on you and your baby. End of.
Good luck x

Tell them to F* OFF out your house it's completely inappropriate of them to intrude on you like this at all let alone when your 8 months pregnant

Still here.
Now arguing with the oh as he thinks am just being a funny cow?!!
Am about to seriously explode.
Am tired hormonal and don't need this shit.

Hotel!

They are being seriously rude! Declare that you're having pain think early labour and they all better leave unless they want to witness the birth right now

Then if anyone else turns up again just say NO

Poor you, that sounds horrific.

I'd be very blunt and say "I'm afraid you must leave within the next hour. I'm 8 months pregnant and this is all too much for me. I've been advised total rest but having you all here is exhausting. Thank you for understanding".

You DH needs to sort out his priorities!