feeling rubbish and after some sympathy

[K8eee]

Am pg with dc2. dd 1 is just over 1, and has hit a HUGE clingy stage I'm exhausted, nauseas, eating a combination of fruit and crisps. The house is a mess, we have friends staying Sunday night which I could do without as most nights I'm in bed by 9pm. I'm only 9 weeks so I don't really want to tell anyone but I look like a lazy cow at the moment I just want some sympathy please

Aw you definitely have my sympathy . Be kind to yourself!

dd keeps whining. She's managed to tip all the clean dry washing out the basket, toys everywhere and I'm slumped on the sofa in front of Jeremy kyle

If they're close friends maybe say something and get them to help or call it off? You poor thing. I'm ten weeks and shattered and nauseous a lot with a tummy bug on top wasting these sunny days on the sofa. I guess it's not a waste of time growing somebody. Perhaps get dd to have a couple of hours with someone?

Oh K8eee, you poor thing, rotten feeling like that - sympathy++++
I often feel like this and not pg and no demanding toddler but then I am just a lazy cow
BTW as long as you have fruit then you cannot have a messy house (see Fithly - yes Fithly - house thread.

Be good to yourself. Big hugs and get a cleaner in to do a one off clean before your friend arrives

xx

Well the last couple of days I have felt better. Our friends have been really good, and we've told them I'm pg. One of them wasn't too impressed though why can't people just be happy for you?!