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Unsure of baby's paternity

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xfriends · 15/04/2015 00:34

I just found out I'm pregnant but I'm not in a relationship at the moment. Also still in uni.

My last period was on the 15th of March.
I had sex with different guys on the following dates

24th March
27th March
31st March
3rd April
5th April same guy I saw on the 27th

I'm just wondering whose it could be because I think I've told the wrong guy.

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Number3cometome · 15/04/2015 10:58

OP - I would go and get a full STI check done and discuss your options with a counsellor at the clinic - it's too early for a rapid HIV test, so you will probably need to repeat that test in 3 months time.

Not trying to worry you, it's just something that needs to be done.

We've all had silly times before, it's a mistake and you can move past it as long as you are fully armed with all of the facts.

You need to be honest with these guys in terms of the pregnancy if you decide to keep it, and in terms of those STI results - that is very important as they could potentially spread to other people.

Your STI checks will be free - please do this asap and worry about the pregnancy as a second issue.

You will not be able to tell who the father is in this case - the dates are far too close and there is no way of knowing when you ovulated.

Please take care of yourself, it would be easy to judge you, but I also know how easy it is to get carried away.

Do let us know how you get on OP

beno57 · 15/04/2015 11:11

All I would suggest is talk to someone who you can trust and will not judge you but offer support. You then need to make a decision that you are happy with. Once you have done that I would get tested for STIs etc and then tell the guys about the results of that. I wouldn't worry about paternity at the current time.

Next time, be safe. Then you can have the fun without any consequence nor shouldering all the responsibility.

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