worry and paranoia wracking my brain!

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heatherxo · 06/04/2015 13:57

Hi ladies.

I'm 25 weeks now. At around 10-11 weeks I lost one of my twins. Now I'm constantly worrying about losing the surviving twin/early labour.
Anyone else in the same boat? I just wish I knew other ladies that went through the same thing to talk to/be advised from really!
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fackinell · 06/04/2015 14:34

Hi, sincere condolences on your loss and congratulations on your thriving baby. Not much to add but my friend had IVF abroad at 50 (yes, 50) and this happened to her. Her boisterous surviving 3 yo twin now runs rings around her.

Have a chat to your MW over your concerns. I'm 6wks with PG #4 after three losses. I know how you're feeling.

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heatherxo · 06/04/2015 23:00

Thank you.
This is my first pregnancy, I'm only 20, so not much knowledge I guess.
I guess I just don't want to make a scene/tell mw and her think I'm over-reacting..

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crazycravings · 07/04/2015 12:11

It happened to me in 2009, my daughter was born in January 2010. It's hard not to worry. She was born at 37 weeks and is very healthy!! After the birth may be hard so make sure you have support

fackinell · 07/04/2015 13:40

The MW won't think you're a bother. That's what they're there for, to advise and reassure.

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heatherxo · 07/04/2015 17:44

Thank you ladies! Xx

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