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Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

ZERO libido in pregnancy

7 replies

Dildals · 26/03/2015 13:15

During my first pregnancy nipples and bits were so sensitive that sex became a very pleasant pastime, but this time round I am NOT feeling the love. My boobs hurt, I feel unsexy (my bump just looks lardy this time round, rather than the neat bump I had first time) and I just want him to get his hands off me! :-)

I have a feeling I am not alone in this, but, just humour me ... Will I ever regain the wish to have sex with my husband again?!?!

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NoodieRoodie · 26/03/2015 13:24

Yep. DS (now 3.5) no desire apart from wanting to punch DH.

DD (17 months) sick as a dog but horny as hell.

Currently 17 weeks with DC3 and no desire at all.

I'm guessing I'm having another boy!

Obviously the fact that we're onto DC3 proves that the desire comes back Grin

ToriB34 · 26/03/2015 13:24

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mrstothemr · 26/03/2015 13:26

Yep, here too... Zero with ds (17 months), and again nothing with new pregnancy (8 weeks). I figure growing a person takes it out of you

NickyEds · 26/03/2015 13:28

With ds i had a lovely pregnancy and we carried on as normal. This time I'm fatter (my bump is totally different too), more knackered, grumpy, looking after a 15 month old all day, sicker and , well just generally blleughh. Dp is most put out! It was good for 16 years before this and will be good again I'm sureSmile.

Dildals · 27/03/2015 11:25

I feel bad for DH though ... poor guy ...

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sianihedgehog · 27/03/2015 16:23

I had a long stretch of NO interest whatsoever, then recently I've been WELL UP FOR IT. Unfortunately, I don't think my other half is finding my massive bump and weird looking tits particularly appealing. :(

avocadotoast · 27/03/2015 19:21

Yeah, we've barely had any action! I feel like we should make the most of time alone before the baby comes but I'm just not bothered most of the time Confused

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