help please!!

[georgie95]

I'm 13 weeks pregnant and so excited! But there is 2 possible fathers. Each being an ex partner. On my 12 week scan I counted back to the 1st of December... I had sex with potential father 1 all way through November last time being the 28th.. Then had a light period starting on the 30th ending on the 3rd of December. I had sex with potential father 2 on the 8th of December roughly. Does this mean it has more chance to be potentially father number 1s?!

More likely to be potential father 2 if you are 13 weeks - you are already seen as 2 weeks pregnant at the point where you conceive as it's dated from first day of your period, not the point where you ovulated.

This all depends on cycle length, when in your cycle you ovulate etc, the only way to be certain is a DNA test.

I think I conceived around 10th December and I am now 14+1. It's difficult to know for certain though.

What would you call a 'light' period? Spotting? Or just a few days not heavy flow? If it was spotting then it could be implantation bleeding which would not rule out #1. If you have already had a dating scan then you will get a better idea of your dates. That being said, I would say the chances are more likely to be #2.

Did you count back 12 weeks from the scan (assuming they dated you at 12 weeks)? As PP said, you get 2 weeks 'free' so count back 10 which takes you to 10 December ish.
This would roughly work out correct for ovulation after your period too based on what you've written.

You won't know for sure without a DNA test but from what you've said here I'd guess man 2 is the father.

Can someone please help me i cant find the right page to ask my questions on but i have been off birth control for 5 months now had quite regular periods and now i havent had a period at all in febuary im 3 days late tested this morning and was negative ? Me and my partner are trying to concieve is there a high chance i could be pregnant after not having a period last month ?

You could be pregnant and too early to show on a test similarly you could just be experiencing the frustration that is the time after coming off birth control when your cycles look like they're regular then give you a wonky month just to throw you. It took me nearly a year to be truly regular.
Good luck either way. If no sign of your period in a few days, test again. That was the advice of my GP.