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Stupid receptionist at Dr.s surgery.........

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HRHQueenOfQuotes · 10/10/2006 19:21

Called up yesterday to try and get my booking in appointment sorted. They usually do them at 8-10 weeks at our surgery and you can't make an appointment more than 4 weeks in advance (marvelous if the dr. says "I'd like to see you again in 6 weeks!). Anyhow, she told me the MW would ring me to make an appointment sometime - but in the meantime which hospital did I want to give birth in.......... I told her I wasn't sure yet (we've got two pretty equal distance).

Her reponse "well you HAVE to decide now so we can get your scan date sorted." Fair enough I thought, and told her I'd use Kettering (the one I used for DS2) for now - but might change my mind later in the pg". stupid woman then told me that "once you're registered with that hospital you HAVE to stay with them, no changing"!. How I stopped myself telling her that I was perfectly entitled to change my mind - and that anyhow I was hoping for a homebirth and the hospital I chose as my backup would be decided later on I don't know.

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squishy · 10/10/2006 20:04

grrrrrrrrrrrrrr. I don't know how you stopped yourself either. Isn't it annoying how rude and pushy they can be?!?!?! You done well to keep your cool, lady!!!! Deciding at this stage? Ludicrous!

Divvy · 10/10/2006 22:52

You can change your mind..what does she think people do that move to a new area during pregnancy do!

I had all my 3 at Kettering, and have found the maternity wing, very good...but it was a very liong time ago now since my last

northampton is 2-3 miles further from us, but you wont have the A14 to contend with...in a rush!!!!

wools · 11/10/2006 07:03

Take no notice of her. Just smile sweetly, tell her what she wants to hear and then just do what you want.

CaptainCavemansMummy · 11/10/2006 07:33

Perhaps you could suggest to the gp that the receptionist may benefit from some customer service training!

DebsCee · 11/10/2006 07:41

How annoying!

I had a choice of Kettering or Hinchingbrooke, chose Hinchingbrooke and then in the last month changed my mind to Kettering!

HRHQueenOfQuotes · 11/10/2006 13:30

I wasn't overly impressed with Kettering when I had DS2 a few years ago - didn't feel I was being listened too at all (apart from one lovely MW). Still I'm not bothered where I have my scan so Kettering will do for now

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