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Help & Advise!! PLEASE

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Jotia · 22/10/2014 10:28

Advise wanted... PLEASE!!

I am just gone 11 weeks pregnant and I'm due to have my 1st scan next week (12 weeks) and I'm WORRIED sick.
I'm worrying over all sorts, from them not being able to "see" a baby, to no heartbeat - everything really.
I did 3 tests which were all positive, and now I'm worrying soooo much that I,m in 2 minds whether to go and buy more tests just to be sure!! I feel really well, no sickness, cravings - nothing.
Any advise would be very much appreciated - has anybody else felt like this - is it normal?? This is my first baby and I just dont know what to expect / feel..!!

HELP!!!

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babyblabber · 22/10/2014 10:35

i had no symptoms really on first pregnancy, other than the odd mild cramp which was like a period pain and had me constantly thinking it'd be a miscarriage.

when going to my first scan at 11 weeks I was worried there'd be nothing there and that i'd be one of those crazy ladies with a phantom pregnancy being referred to a psychiatrist!

it's tough til you get that scan but you are nearly there. If you're really stressing why not pay for a private scan to put your mind at ease?

VintageCherry26 · 22/10/2014 10:44

Totally normal!! This is my first too and I'm only 5w6d and worried about the first scan/ want it to hurry up! I have A huge pack of the cheap ebay one step tests which I use every few days to reassure myself I really am pregnant still!

callamia · 22/10/2014 10:47

Everyone I know felt like this. I did for sure, and is had a scan after some early bleeding that indicated things were ok. It's really scary until you see the baby, and then it's just incredible and exciting. With the most kindness in the world, you can't change anything that's going on inside there right now - you just need to contain your anxieties for a tiny bit longer. Just know that you're definitely not alone in feeling like this.

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