im having a elcs this time as had to have a emcs with ds his apgar scale was low he was wedged and they had to use forceps to get him out, it was totally traumatic last time and althjough i ll be glad to have this one out im petrified of going through it again! i sat on my mums bed last night and cried cos i was so scared! dh is going to be with me and my midiwife is breaking rules so dh is with me when they do the spinal as im the biggest wwimp ever! they have said the blood loss with this one will be worse as i have a frontal placenta and they will probably hit it, im terrified and really dreading the day! anyone been through this that can reassure me