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FirstTimeMummy95x · 03/07/2014 20:54

I've been reading a lot of blogs since I found out I was pregnant and constantly find myself comparing my bump to other peoples even though I know everyone's body is different. I'm 20 weeks and feel like I'm barely showing, anyone else feeling the same?

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Lula2515 · 03/07/2014 20:57

I'm 22 weeks and feel MASSIVE! I even lie to people I don't know about how far along I am to dodge their judgement. I guess it's natural to compare to others x

CoolCat2014 · 03/07/2014 20:58

Everyone looks different, depends on your frame size, BMI, way you're carrying etc.

Don't worry about it, you'll soon pop out ;)

FirstTimeMummy95x · 03/07/2014 21:03

I'm quite small height and weight wise so maybe going to take a while before it shows:) i popped out quite quickly around 12-13 weeks but now i feel tiny! lets hope i begin to look a bit more pregnant soon, i guess its just the excitement of a first time mummy wanting to see her bump

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ToniWol · 03/07/2014 21:03

I'm 22 weeks tomorrow and have only just popped out this last week. Whereas my aunt told me she started showing in the first 3 months then didn't grow anymore. Everyone's body is different. If your MW is happy then don't worry.

purplemurple1 · 03/07/2014 21:13

A week before I gave birth people couldn't guess I was pregnant, although I measured only a couple of weeks behind and ds was around 40% at birth.
Some of us just hide it well.

Sleepyhoglet · 03/07/2014 22:31

I'm large at 20 weeks tomorrow but usually a slim 6-8 so it really shows!! Felt baby kick from the outside today.

BumpNGrind · 03/07/2014 22:49

I'm 26 weeks and have only been showing for the last three weeks really, I'm still not big. I've been able to feel kicks from 16 weeks.

MissMagpie · 04/07/2014 12:55

I found that I was quite small until about 16 weeks, at 20 weeks I was showing a bit then since then I have had some major growth spurts and now, at 28 weeks, look like I have swallowed a ball!

Everyone is different and everyone else always has an opinion on what your bump is like. Don't worry too much what people say - most people are just trying to bond over a shared experience and don't realise that it can set off worries by comparing yours to theirs or other peoples'.

As long as baby is growing that's all that matters.

squizita · 04/07/2014 13:58

I didn't seem to be growing much and people would make "concerned" comments which worried me.

  1. I popped out MASSIVELY 22-24 weeks
  2. Before then my baby was average or bigger at every scan.

It just depends on how you carry - my mum carried twins and was in her normal clothes for 19 weeks!

squizita · 04/07/2014 13:59

...baby is still just above average size. No one comments now as I have an obvious bump.

SarahMcCxx · 04/07/2014 15:04

I am 22 weeks pregnant tomorrow. The other day someone told me that my bump was small, and then today someone said that I was big! I think everyone else just compares your bump to their own :-)

eastmidswarwicknightnanny · 04/07/2014 16:51

I am 19weeks and have a barely there bump n lots normal clothes still fit was SAME last pregnancy but expected bigger for second although have been unwell currently half stone less than pre pregnancy.

However 24weeks last time n bump made an appearance n yep no hiding it then.

ImBrian · 05/07/2014 08:54

I'm 19 weeks and mines pretty huge. I was small with most of my other pregnancies but my stomach muscles have given up. With my first I had no bump till well past 20 weeks and then had a small bump the whole time. Was easier then having a massive one.

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