20 week scan tomorrow, tearful I'm going alone

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After lots of on off issues with my partner we finally split up over the weekend, ended quite badly and haven't heard anything from him since, just got a text to say given how things are he will not be at the scan and to let him know after how it went!

Even though I know us spliting up is the best thing and ghd right thing can't help feeling very tearful and rejected right now!

I'm sure it will be fine and it just my hormones but feeling pretty down right now

Is there anyone who can go with you instead? A friend, a relative?

So sorry to hear that, I am glad he wants you to tell him how it went after though.

Poss a friend has just messaged, it's just at a bad time 9am doesn't fit well with friends and school runs

please please please try and get someone to go with you. If god forbid something was found you will need someone with you. Sorry to think of the worst but it happened to me this week and I don't know how I would have coped if I was alone.

I really do hope it all goes well for you xxxx

Would you ask him to come? He will still be a parent of this child. He might reconsider if you asked him to. Or is there someone in his family that you could agree would support you? Maybe I am in cuckoo land to suggest it but he needs to bond too.

I agree with Roshbegosh - maybe his text was to test the waters - maybe he thinks, if you really wanted him there, you would ask him, and he would come? It's really important to maintain a friendly relationship with the father of your child, even if you're not together romantically. He'll always be a big part of your life.

How did the scan go op? did you manage to find someone to go with you? I hope all is well

Hope it went well OP