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Did you have a baby shower?

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ElleDubloo · 03/03/2014 09:42

Our pregnancy is still secret at the moment (only 5+5) but in a few months we'd like to throw a party to celebrate.

Did you have a baby shower / other celebration?
How pregnant were you at the time?
What did you do?
Did you ask for gifts / donations to charity?

I'd quite like to wait until the summer, and invite friends round to my in-laws' house (much bigger than our flat) where we'll have a barbecue, balloons, bubbles, fizzy drinks and games We might ask for donations to a children's charity in lieu of gifts (because I like shopping for things myself!)

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sandy30 · 10/09/2015 21:39

I didn't. Would have secretly sort-of liked one but it also feels like tempting fate. Plus, I think you usually need someone to host it for you and I don't have anyone (woe is me ;)).

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applecatchers36 · 10/09/2015 21:48

Yep my sister organised one for me, it was a special treat at the end of pregnancy, an opportunity to relax have lunch, games, cakes etc with friends and family before your world implodes in new parenthood.

Was a lovley moment & a great memory.

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tindel · 11/09/2015 08:12

I did, but only because my American friend was desperate to organise one for me. It ended up being an afternoon tea with partners and children there. She'd organised a few games and there was no mention of gifts on the invite and I didn't put together a gift list. Everyone bought little gifts anyway and one of the games resulted in my having pre-addressed thank you cards to send back.

A few people were very sceptical about it beforehand, but it was a lovely low-key afternoon and DH and I had a great time

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Junosmum · 11/09/2015 09:57

Totally not my thing. I'd be mortified and what if everything goes wrong after it. The idea gives me funny feelings of tempting fate and the like! Strange as I don't feel that way about other people's, but I'm still not keen. Feels excessive and grabby.

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toohardtothinkofaname · 11/09/2015 11:07

My friends are holding one for me (I found out because 2 separate sets of friends had started organising and almost ended up with 2!) . I've asked not to be included in any of the prep though and refused to have it at my house - just felt too odd.

I have been asked a lot though what we need help with and have been told it would be easier for friends/relatives if we had a list for them to have so I've made one but I've worded the intro extra, extra carefully because it did feel a bit greedy.

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jorahmormont · 11/09/2015 11:11

My uni friends threw me one as a surprise. We're all quite young and I'm the first of our group to have a child, so they were all really excited and it was cute. Basically I walked back into class from lunch and they'd set up a little surprise party and bought gifts which was lovely of them.

It's definitely a no-no to plan your own, though.