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For those pregnant with no.2 when did you feel ready for another?

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TheCrumpetQueen · 27/12/2013 15:45

I have a ds who is 13 months and would love another soon but I'm actually too scared to go through labour again! When does that feeling fade enough that the broodiness takes presidence?

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Ilovekittyelise · 27/12/2013 23:12

thanks cq. still not made final decision about elcs. my giant love requiring toddlers the only thing in support of vb!

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Inglori0us · 28/12/2013 16:28

My dd will be just 2 when ds arrives. We started ttc when she turned 1. I always wanted them quite close together, but now I'm in a constant mild panic!

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Missmidden · 28/12/2013 18:04

As no one has mentioned it I thought I would bring up secondary infertility and m/c which happened to me. My DP took his time to decide a second was a good idea so we started trying when DD was 2.3. It took 6 mths to conceive first time round so I thought we would get a 3 to 3.6 year age gap.

Sadly things did not go to plan, ended up with IVF, a m/c, then fell pg naturally and am now 11 wks so the gap will be 4.3 yrs. And I am so grateful as a few months ago I thought it was never going to happen at all. So, no matter what you plan for, life can still throw a spanner in the works.

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PastaForRudolph · 28/12/2013 18:39

For me it was all about feeling ready to go on maternity leave again rather than pregnancy and birth.

I missed work a lot when off with DD and felt really happy and content when I went back 3 days a week. It is the perfect balance for me. I did come to realise that I definitely wanted another so perhaps was best to get on with it rather than thinking about it.

31 weeks now so there will be 2.3 years between DD and DC#2.