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Pregnancy

Talk about every stage of pregnancy, from early symptoms to preparing for birth.

Sex!

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SweetPea86 · 20/11/2013 19:48

Seem a few posts on here since falling preganat about how horny ladies are during pregnancy.

whilst TTC we were at it like rabbits. But after 5 weeks pregnant I have had serve morning sickness. I'm now 19 weeks and it's finally past but I'm exhausted all the time. I have a trapped nerve In my bum I just don't have any sex drive at all.

I'm 5 month now and haven't had sex once since been preganat I feel like a terrible person. I spoke to my hubby and he's totally supportive and told me to stop worrying.

So I'm under no pressure but I feel like I'm the only person to have no sex drive.

Any body else like this when pregnant

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Writerwannabe83 · 20/11/2013 19:56

I'm 22 weeks pregnant and haven't had sex with my husband since I got pregnant either. It was initially due to medical reasons (unexplained bleeding during the pregnancy) but even though my Obstetrician has told me it's now fine for us to have sex I just can't find the inclination to actually bother, lol Grin

sophs37 · 20/11/2013 19:59

im 27 weeks pregnant and have only had sex once since I fell and its the only time aswell. to tired n sick to want sex
my hubby don't pressure me at all very understanding x

ImTheDoctor · 20/11/2013 21:02

I was like this the first 2 PGs, but this time round we have managed a few times. Logistics aside, its really worth the effort. Theres lots more blood flowing about down there with positive effect!

Littlebean13 · 20/11/2013 21:33

24 weeks and we've dtd three times since conception. I feel exactly the same as you, I have literally zero sex drive. I feel so bad about it & had a chat with dp about it last night who reassured me it was fine and not to worry but I still feel so bad for him! I don't want the poor bloke to think I've gone off him haha.

peeapod · 20/11/2013 22:01

remember theres more to intimacy than sex... making sure you are intimate is just as important I'v found. (and massages are a double bonus being pregnant ;)

SweetPea86 · 20/11/2013 23:02

Thanks ladies I'm glad I'm not the only one.

Before I was preg especially around ovulation I would feel horny and think about sex all the time. Theses days it's the last thing on my mind

Although there's no sex we kiss cuddle, massages spend lots of quality time together and even tho I look rough he tells me I'm beautiful.

I'm very lucky to have such a good egg, I just feel guilty even more so when you read posts on here about people at it like rabbits at 6 months and I feel there's summit wrong.

Thanks for your reassurance

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RaRa1988 · 21/11/2013 07:33

My sex drive increased last time I was pg, but this time it's gone waaaayyyy down Hmm - mostly cos I'm far too tired by the evening I think. I've told DP to try and catch me in the day if he's up for it as there's far more chance of me having the energy to do more than lie there like a corpse Grin - is that an option for you?

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