Help am I the only one??

[Naomilouise1992]

Feel like my minds doing over time, i know my partner loves me very much but a few weeks ago I noticed he was texting a girl i think it was just friendly chit chat and think they've been friends for ages, but yesterday morning she text him again I haven't said anything but my minds goin into overtime.... Every time he sits on his phone I think is he texting her? Tonight there's a bit of atmosphere going to bed. What do I do help please I don't know if it's me overthinking things it's really not like mexxx

Please talk to him, yes it may be hard and awkward but that atmosphere won't change until you do. Explain how it makes you feel, he probably has no idea!

Yes do chat to him. Once you get something on your mind it's hard to let it go (IMHO).
Tell him pregnancy is making you hormonal and you need some fuss and reassurance.
I understand how you feel. My dh works with several absolutely gorgeous women and often travels with them. Usually this doesn't bother me at all but now I feel like a blimp, and the crazy hormones make me feel insecure (and frankly a bit unhinged!). Talking it through helped a lot.
Good luck!!

I third talking to him, he won't know that you're feeling insecure unless you tell him. It might be innocent.

I agree! In fact I think I might need to do the same w/my husband. I think pregnancy can just make you feel insecure - esp if the sex has dried up (36+1 here don't even want to think about it!)

But I like the idea of blaming it on the pregnancy hormones - just say "I know I'm probably acting like a crazy person... BUT..." and let him reassure you. That is probably all you want really.

Only just seen these replays! Oh we had words... I slept on the sofa said something in the morning and he said look this is what she has text me, "I had a dream about you last night, Naomi was init too :s"

I find this strange as I've never even met the girl but oh well... Few weeks later she added me in Facebook. Which I think is even freakier.

Things are okay now, I still think hmmmm.... When's he is sat on his phone and it does my head in. But I'm biting my tongue. :)

Did you end up taking to your husband xx

Oh and another thing that's annoyed me. He's going on his works do Thursday and I know for a fact that people will be taking there partners he's not even asked me if I want to go!!!!

Not that I'd want to as I got the midwife appointment and going shopping with my mum the day after, But it would be nice to be asked!!!!

Rant over :) I do love him loads tho xxxx