25weeks with dc3.. Loss of sex drive. Anyone else?

[littleraysofsunshine]

I have loss of sex drive... Just tired all the time. And to be honest it's the last thing on my mind. But I feel rubbish for it. I'd love for us to hVe more quality time and intimate time but it just doesn't happen. By the time it's 9pm I'm ready for bed...

The other day I ha the teeny tiniest bit of blood. MW said its nothing to worry about as it stopped after that one spot. I just feel uneasy too now.

But more so I don't feel sexy, or up for it no matter how handsomely gorgeous my dp is.

I'm 13 weeks and haven't had any sex drive since I found out I was preg. Sickness and exhaustion has took over my life. Was worried would affect hubby but quite frankly he knows he's better off further away seeing me throw up every 30 mins has put him off too lol

Don't worry it's normal to feel like that it will come bk

You can have quality intimate time with out having sex. Just snuggling up in bed. make sure you spend a bit of time together, my hubby knows I'm a bit fed up and sex like you is the last thing on my mind we just snuggle up.

I just feel so tired, and achy some days. Backache can be rotten!

It just makes me feel a bit rubbish, he understands but I just feel like a rubbish partner for never feeling up to it

You're 25 weeks pregnant and have two children. Of course you don't feel like having sex! Even without the other things you mention.

There are lots of ways of being close and loving which aren't sexual.

And you're not a "rubbish partner". You're growing his baby.

I'm 39 weeks and haven't had any for, erm, 39 weeks...couldn't think of anything worse!

Tough on him! Honestly, if you're not feeling up for it...he'll live!