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Anothermrssmith · 08/10/2013 13:24

I start my maternity leave 6 weeks on Monday and was told by my office manager today that I have 6 days holiday I need to use before that or I will loose them. So, I could take a random 6 days off, stick the 6 days on the front of my maternity leave (so finish at the same time but my actual leave not start until a week later IYSWIM) OR have 6 4 day weeks in a row!

I knew I had a few days left to take and I was planning on just putting them at the front of my maternity leave but now I know I have 6 weeks left and 6 days to use it's so tempting to see if I can get away with taking every Friday off between now and finishing up on December 2nd. But at the same time I can also see the advantage of having an extra week at the end of my maternity leave. If you were me what would you do?

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EmB1715 · 08/10/2013 13:34

How many weeks will you be at your intended maternity leave date?

Anothermrssmith · 08/10/2013 13:39

33 weeks, finishing a bit earlier because I know I will be induced at 38 weeks, and was planning on taking about 7 months off.

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EmB1715 · 08/10/2013 13:48

5 weeks should be ample. If I were you I'd see about having those shorter weeks!

BadFam1 · 08/10/2013 13:55

I would kill for shorter weeks right now! :)

April13 · 08/10/2013 14:02

I have to use all my AL too so I am doing a month of shorter weeks, taking the Friday Mondays off, 4 days off, 3 days on :)

beela · 08/10/2013 14:06

I'd do shorter weeks.

cravingcake · 08/10/2013 14:22

I would do shorter weeks, and treat yourself to something nice on your 'holiday' day each week - whether thats shopping, a pedicure, pregnancy massage, lazy lie-in & read a book etc.

elcranko · 08/10/2013 15:31

I'd go with the shorter weeks too.

Excited2meetmyprincess · 08/10/2013 16:03

Id do shorter weeks x

curlywurlyllass · 08/10/2013 16:10

Shorter weeks! From 9th november im pretty much doing one shift a week till mat leave starts in december-using my annual leave up :)

Vixjane · 08/10/2013 16:27

I'm having a day off each week for my last four weeks before maternity leave and it's bliss! I have been having Wednesdays off and it really breaks the week up. I'd say go for the shorter weeks!

greentshirt · 08/10/2013 17:22

im going to go against the grain and say I would leave at the same time and have the maternity leave end a week later than planned. 5 weeks will be plenty of time to relax and prepare without having the extra days on top!

Xenadog · 08/10/2013 17:31

Shorter weeks too - those Fridays off will be bliss.

Anothermrssmith · 08/10/2013 21:59

It was a nice idea!

You all convinced me that short weeks was the way to go (not that I needed much convincing to be fair) but its not going to happen. My dept at work is just me and one other and my colleague still has 4 days holiday to take, which as its unlikely they will bring anyone in to cover my maternity leave (though that's another story!) he wants to make sure he uses before I finish up. Given the short notice involved and wanting to be fair to him means it doesn't look like it will be doable. I only started back yesterday after a week off and don't really want another week off between now and then so thinking the first 6 days of my maternity leave will actually be annual leave instead.

Was a nice idea though sigh

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